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(September 7, 2005)


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TOPICS

1. Ask Highly Effective Closed Questions
2. Ensure Accurate Self-Assessment in Peer Work
3. Attend a Peer Conference or Training Event
4. Key Studies from Peer Research to Strengthen Practice
5. What's New in Peer World?
6. Access the Peer Resources Peer Program Assessment Model
7. Subscribing, Unsubscribing, Distribution and Copyright

ASK HIGHLY EFFECTIVE CLOSED QUESTIONS

One of Peer Resources' most valued peer leadership workshop training activities is an exercise that helps participants learn to ask powerful questions. The exercise illuminates how different types of questions can increase the depth of conversation or bring an interaction to a halt. In addition participants in the activity learn how to restructure questions so that they have a greater likelihood of establishing an atmosphere of enquiry, curiosity and support rather than an atmosphere of examination, interrogation and domination.

One element of the "powerful question exercise" is the distinction that is made between what are called "open-ended" and "close-ended" questions. Open-ended questions, usually begin with the words, like "what" or "how" and typically allow a wider variety of responses. They are valued because they often enable the responder to decide the content, direction, and depth of response. They also are generally more successful in helping another person to express thoughts, ideas and feelings that are more complex. Training in the use of open-ended questions is an essential component in coaching, mentoring, and peer assistance.

Close-ended questions typically generate one-word answers. Usually the responses are more important to the person asking the question than they are to the person answering the question. This type of question often only has a "yes," "no" or one-word answer. These questions are mostly used to help narrow down rather than open up the range of answers or responses. They are common in everyday interaction and in most cases, individuals asked to respond to such questions seldom voluntarily go beyond just a one-word answer. Talk show hosts, police personnel and lawyers in a courtroom rely on close-ended questions so that they can be assured of directing the conversation.

One of the outcomes of the powerful question exercise is the belief that open-ended questions are better than close-ended questions. And while it is true that open-ended questions may be better at achieving certain outcomes, a recent book by Debbie Ford, The Right Questions: Ten Essential Questions to Guide You to an Extraordinary Life, shows that when it comes to helping people make choices within their lives, close-ended questions can be just as powerful as their open-ended relatives.

The following examples from Debbie Ford's book help to show the power of a close-ended question to assist a person who is making or has made a choice in reflecting more deeply about that choice:

1. Will this choice propel me toward an inspiring future or will it keep me stuck in the past?
2. Will this choice bring me long term fulfillment or will it bring me short term gratification?
3. Am I standing in my own power or am I trying to please another?
4. Am I looking for what's right, or am I looking for what's wrong?
5. Will this choice add to my life force, or will it rob me of my energy?
6. Will I use this situation as a catalyst to grow and evolve or will I use it to beat myself up?
7. Does this choice empower me or reduce my sense of empowerment?
8. Is this an act of self-love or self-sabotage?
9. Is this an act of faith or an act of fear?
10. Am I choosing from my Divinity or am I choosing from my humanity?

Ford, D. (2003). The right questions: Ten essential questions to guide you to an extraordinary life. San Francisco: Harper Books. (Available from Amazon.com or Amazon.ca


"Take the attitude of a student. Never be to big to ask questions. Never know too much to learn something new."

~ Og Mandino ~
(Who is this?)


ENSURE ACCURATE SELF-ASSESSMENT IN PEER WORK

Assessment has become a billion dollar industry and is strongly fueled by the conventional wisdom that an individual's ability to assess him or her self is typically less reliable, less accurate, or less valid than an external or expert source of assessment. Most of us have between 12 to 18 years of experience with this viewpoint as our teachers graded our work from kindergarten to graduate school. While there might have been the occasional unhappiness about a particular grade as not being fair, for the most part we learned to accept this conventional view that "teacher knows best."

This same perspective is perpetuated in the workplace. While even the most conservative organizations, will solicit employee views about their own progress, growth or development, they rely mostly on reports from supervisors, managers, co-workers, or assessment inventories to obtain "real" data. Self-assessment data is often described as "subjective," "self-serving," or "inaccurate." It would be ridiculous, most managers believe, to rely exclusively on an employee's self-evaluation of performance when the outcome of that evaluation may determine promotion, advancement or pay increases.

The vision of most peer trainers includes a commitment to their trainees' ability to have accurate views of their own interactions, development, or skills. But what happens when a peer assistant's assessment clashes with the self-assessment of the person he or she is helping? Or when a peer trainer's assessment of a training participant doesn't match the self-assessment of that person in training? In other words, even though both parties want to improve the accuracy of self-assessment, what happens that prevents this outcome?

During the 1970's I experimented with a number of self-assessment procedures in my university courses. I was especially interested in the relationship between external assessments of learning and how much learners perceived they had gained. I wanted to know what factors influenced a difference between a learner's own assessment and an instructor's assessment of that learner. Since both learners and instructors were dealing with the same content, the same procedures, and the same evaluation data, why were they so often at odds with each other when it came to assessment of progress, results, or outcomes.

Part of my motivation for this experimentation was a dissatisfaction with the traditional grading system that minimized the student role and contributed to the atrophy of student ability to make accurate self-assessments. Another element in my intention was my experience during my own graduate student days on the campus of the University of California at Berkeley during the Free Speech Movement, where "student power" became our everyday mantra. I was determined to find ways to integrate student power into the classroom and show how it actually improved academic achievement.

My first experiments were almost completely based on my Berkeley experience. "At the end of the term," I told my first group of undergraduates, "give yourself a grade and provide a rationale." Students were also encouraged to give each other "grades." My courses became oversubscribed by eager students willing to participate in this experiment. While many enrolled because they wanted to learn about the topic, seize the opportunity to re-vitalize their intrinsic ability to make assessments, or become associated with such a radical procedure, others enrolled for the perceived easy grade and opportunity to improve their grade point average.

Although all course outlines and grading procedures had to be submitted to department chairs, the sheer weight of such pages from all the members of the department likely prohibited my chair from anything but just filing them in a "current course outlines" folder. Thus, I had not received any feedback about my intended procedure.

When the semester came to an end, I had several hundred self-assessments to read. And as you've probably guessed by now, almost every student gave him or herself an "A" grade. And very few students were willing to assign their peers anything less than an "A" grade. The accompanying rationales ranged from a single sentence to several pages. I'll leave it to your imagination as to the variety of reasons students provided for such a mark.

I should note here that students did participate in both essay exams and quick quizzes, and they also wrote a paper on a related topic of their choosing. Students received scores on their exams and feedback about their papers. Some of the most paradoxical rationale for the end-of-term self-assignment of the "A" grade came from students who scored at the low end on the exams and wrote questionable papers. Going into those details is beyond the scope of this article, but mostly the extent of their rationale was "I learned a lot."

When I submitted my grade sheets listing the extensive number of "A" grades and then went on holidays, I was still very dissatisfied with the outcomes and thought I really hadn't come much closer to understanding the relationship between self-assessment and actual learning, let alone how to make this happen in a practical and concrete way in the classroom.

After returning from my vacation, I was greeted by a stack of mail and a copy of the university newspaper that had as a headline: "University bans self-assessment as a grading option." My mail included mostly requests from senior administrators to attend meetings to explain why my grade sheet was so out-of-line with all other grade sheets; followed by requests to attend the academic senate hearings on why my grade sheet had so many high grades; and followed by a request from the university president to meet and explain my rationale.

In the relatively short time I had been employed by the university, I was delighted to have such an interest in my work. Of course, it didn't bode well for my progress towards tenure to have so many administrators and colleagues "annoyed." (I use that term because the terms that most of my colleagues used would not be suitable for this newsletter.)

To make this long story short (oops, probably too late), I went back to all the rationale statements provided by the students and identified a number of themes. These themes led to designing a different way to integrate self-assessment into the classroom and increase the likelihood that such assessments would more accurately reflect or match actual learning. The resulting system was implemented successfully in virtually all of my courses and was continued until retirement from university teaching (with tenure).

The elements of that system are described in: Carr, R. (1977). The effects of specific guidelines on the accuracy of student self-evaluation. Canadian Journal of Education, 2 (4), 65-79. This study used videotape feedback and three degrees of specific, objective instructions to impact self-assessments. Theme analysis of the original course data and continuing data from subsequent courses confirmed that the more explicit the criteria used to make the self-assessment and the more involvement in the creation of those criteria by the person making the self-assessment, the more likely that the self-assessment matched other "objective" measures of learning.

In our peer work, if we want self-assessment to play a significant and accepted role, and we want to maximize the accuracy of self-assessment (that is, be reasonably in line with other accurate data sources), then the procedures and structure we use to gain such self-assessment data are crucial.

First, the person who will be the focus of the self-assessment must be actively involved in determining the criteria to be used to make the assessment. The criteria can be created through discussions with teachers, parents, community workers, and peers, but ultimately they must be criteria that both the self-assessor and the person that the self-assessor will submit the results to agree upon as being important. This often means that pre-determined instruments or previously used sets of criteria will have limited utility unless they contain items valued by both parties. "Re-inventing" the wheel each time is more likely to yield accurate self-assessments.

Second, the criteria developed must be specific, concrete or explicit enough so that all parties will understand not just "what" the criteria are, but also the way in which the criteria are relevant. Most people object to this part. They are more likely to design simple criteria and then spend more time analyzing the response to the criteria. Ambiguous criteria often receive ambiguous answers. When I was asked by a previous employer (a theme park, motion picture, and television production organization that I will not name) to assess "How much have you learned about operating 'Ride X'?" I responded with the informative phrase, "A lot."

While there can still be debate as to whether an individual's own self-assessment or another person's assessment of that individual can be considered "more accurate," without the knowledge of the factors that contribute to better self-assessment, we have little chance to prevent individuals from missing the mark, being too critical, or ignoring their own learning.

Increasing the accuracy of self-assessment in peer work is essential for peer training and supervision in order improve communication around difficult issues, enable peers to more fully explore tough decisions, and to take action based on more deeply understood motivation.


"There's a powerful transformative effect when you surround yourself with like-minded people. Peer pressure is a great thing when it helps you accomplish your goals instead of distracting you from them."

~ Po Bronson ~
(Who is this?)


ATTEND A PEER CONFERENCE OR RELATED EVENT

Ontario Peer Helpers' Association
12th Elementary Peer Helping and Leadership Conference
September 19-21, 2005
Ontario Educational Leadership Centre, Lake Couchiching, Ontario
www.peerhelping.com
(905) 372-7275
peerhelping@hotmail.com

Peer Ministry Training Opportunities
September 28 to October 1, 2005
www.peerministry.org
(952) 698-3988

Peer Coaching in the Workplace
December 2, 2005
Victoria, British Columbia
http://www.peer.ca/trng.html
(800) 567-3700
info@peer.ca

5th Annual Peer Support Conference
January 27, 2006
University of Northern British Columbia, Prince George, British Columbia
macdonas@unbc.ca
(250) 960-5962

Pomona Peer Resources Middle School Conference
February 16, 2006
Pomona First Baptist Church, Pomona, California
http://w86.pusd.org/peer/2005registration.html
(909) 397-5060 x 3723

Pomona Peer Resources High School Conference
February 23, 2006
Pomona First Baptist Church, Pomona, California
http://w86.pusd.org/peer/2005registration.html
(909) 397-5060 x 3723

For additional peer conferences, training workshops or events as well as to learn about what you missed, go to http://www.peer.ca/peerevents.html.


"Some are born great, some achieve greatness, and some hire public relations officers."

~ Daniel J. Boorstin ~
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FOUR KEY STUDIES FROM PEER RESEARCH TO STRENGTHEN PRACTICE

Peer Resources continually scans the professional and popular published literature to find articles of interest to people involved in peer assistance. In some cases the complete article is available; however, only Peer Resources Network members have access to the full article. Three of several hundred recent additions to the searchable, annotated bibliography at http://www.peer.ca/SearchB.html are:

Hunter, S.C., Boyle, J.M.E., and Warden, D. (September 2004). Help seeking amongst child and adolescent victims of peer-aggression and bullying: The influence of school-stage, gender, victimisation, appraisal, and emotion. British Journal of Educational Psychology, 74, 3, 375-390.

An important element of any anti-bullying program is encouraging victims to tell someone about their predicament. Research has already reported prevalence of telling, who/when children tell and efficacy of telling. However, seeking help can be viewed as a coping behaviour, and coping processes such as appraisal and emotion may be important predictors of whether pupils ask for help. In this study 830 children (49% male) aged 9-14 years completed a self-report bullying questionnaire with items relating to victimisation, appraisal, emotion, and coping strategy choice as well as demographic data. Analysis revealed that gender, challenge appraisals, and emotions were significant predictors of the degree to which child and adolescent victims of peer-aggression and bullying sought help. Girls were more likely than boys to seek help, as were pupils with high challenge appraisals or those experiencing high levels of negative emotion. Also, girls were more likely than boys to view support as the best strategy for both stopping bullying and for helping them to feel better. Results suggest that pupils are more willing to seek help when they see the situation as one in which something can be achieved. Pupils also may be seeking support to get help coping with negative emotions, and this may need to be emphasized to teachers.

Bruckner, H. and Bearman, P. (2005). After the promise: The STD consequences of adolescent virginity pledges. Journal of Adolescent Health, 36, 271-278.

Using students as safe sex peer educators has often been resisted because of the fear that such education might increase, rather than reduce, sex activity or contribute to the spread of sexually transmitted disease (STD). Instead, those against safe sex education advocate for abstinence and the use of virginity pledges as key components of sex education. The US federal government's No Child Left Behind Act (NCLB), for example, expressly forbids funding for programs that do not emphasize abstinence. This current study, which used a nationally representative group of adolescents from grades 7 to 12 (in 1994) and then re-interviewed them when they were 18-26 years old, found that students who take virginity pledges acquire sexually transmitted diseases at rates similar to non-pledgers, despite having less cumulative exposure to STDs, fewer partners, and fewer non-monogamous partners. Pledgers were significantly more likely than non-pledgers to engage in unprotected sexual behaviors that involved the exchange of bodily fluids, as well as have unprotected sex during their first incidence of intercourse.

Ramminger, N.M. (November, 2004). The effectiveness of peer mediation in reducing disruptive behavior of fifth-grade students. Unpublished doctoral dissertation, University of Delaware.

A class of twenty-nine grade five students from an elementary school participated in a yearlong peer mediation project. The goal of the project was to determine the effectiveness of peer mediation in reducing disruptive behavior. It also served as a means of solving conflicts in a peaceable manner while allowing students to take ownership of the resolutions. A total of ten peer mediators were trained during the course of the 2002-03 school year. All twenty-nine students in the home class participated in the project. Students from the three other grade five classes also participated. There were two grade four students who used peer mediation on one occasion. There were forty-six documented cases in which peer mediation was used. Thirty of the sessions occurred during the first semester of the school year. The remaining sixteen took place the second half of the year. Of the forty-six cases, twenty-three produced signed contracts of agreement. Peer mediation was successful in reducing disruptive behavior of the targeted fifth grade students. This program afforded students the opportunity to solve their conflicts in a peaceful way while allowing them to take responsibility for the outcome of the situation. This project also provided information with regards to conflict prone areas throughout the elementary school.

Sharpley, C.F., Munro, D.M., and Elly, M.J. (2005). Silence and rapport during initial interviews. Counselling Psychology Quarterly, 18, 2, 149-159.

The authors examined fifty-nine, one-hour interview sessions to determine the way in which silence interacts with rapport. Results indicated significantly higher amounts of silence during minutes rated as very high in rapport versus those rated as low in rapport, and that counsellor-initiated but client-terminated silences were more likely to contribute towards rapport than silences that were initiated and terminated by the counsellor. The authors recommend that the use of silence be integrated into training programs, and that practitioners be encouraged and not intimidated or anxious about using silence during interviews.


"Well-timed silence hath more eloquence than speech."

~ Martin Tupper ~
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WHAT'S NEW IN THE PEER WORLD?

At the June, 2005 conference of the National Peer Helpers Association (www.peerhelping.org), the members wanted to change the name of this pioneer organization in peer helping to reflect a more contemporary approach to peer work. The winner in the name selection is "The National Association of Peer Programs." A new website has been created, but the mission and goals will remain the same. Their flagship journal, The Peer Facilitator Quarterly, will be renamed: "Perspectives in Peer Programs." All certifications for programs, people, trainers, consultants and curriculum will remain the same. Contact: http://www.peerhelping.org

The National Institute on Disability and Rehabilitation Research (NIDRR) is seeking proposals to conduct research, demonstration projects, training, and related activities that help to maximize the full inclusion and integration of individuals with disabilities into society and to improve the effectiveness of services authorized under the Rehabilitation Act of 1973. Projects can include using knowledge and understanding gained from research to create materials, devices, systems, or methods beneficial to the target population, including using peers to disseminate information or knowledge through a variety of ways to potential users or beneficiaries. The deadline for applications is September 13, 2005. Additional information is available online at: http://tinyurl.com/9tdqd


"The more I know the less I understand."

~ Don Henley ~
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ACCESS THE PEER RESOURCES PEER PROGRAM ASSESSMENT MODEL

For too long peer program leaders have had to rely on complicated program evaluation approaches in order to demonstrate the value or impact of their peer goals, strategies, and procedures. In an effort to attain scientific credibility, peer leaders often turn to assessment or evaluation methods that lack sensitivity to change, but meet scientific research standards.

Now, an experienced researcher has created a valid model that can be easily customized for any peer program. By attending to the simple procedures associated with using the model, peer leaders will be more likely to show the significant changes, differences, or impact their program efforts have had on a variety of their program participants.

Currently being tested in a head-to-head contest with traditional methods, this unique model, called the Peer Resources Post-then-Pre Model, is being made available to subscribers of The Peer News at http://www.peer.ca/Docs.html. The download includes a brief description of the rationale for the development of the model and two detailed examples of how the model has been used in peer programs.


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